The Trouble with Sex in Relationships
By Justin Riray
Why is it that the sex can turn the perfect woman into Jekyll and Hyde?
It seems to me that the majority of relationships between a man and woman, or even, girl and boy, by today’s standards, start off flawlessly.
They love each other more than life itself. They always want to be together. They spend way too much time, money, and energy together.
Everything plays out just like a fairytale.
Then it happens. Sex.
All of a sudden, women get mad about everything.
I admit I am exaggerating, but not that much.
I have heard that a chemical is released into women’s brains over the course of time. The more sex they have with a man, the more they fall in love.
Guys don’t get that chemical.
This is the science behind why most guys can have sex without feelings, but only a small percentage of women can.
When women begin to fall in love they become more possessive and obsessive.
First the women get angry about how their boyfriend talks to or hang around with other girls, even if the girls have been their close friends for many years.
Then the girls say that the guys don’t give them enough time and that they spend too much time with their friends, or family, or they work or go to school too much.
So the relationship that was made in heaven begins to go up in flames.
Both the man and woman become stressed at each other and fight or argue more than weekly.
I just wish that sex wouldn’t change relationships, because sex is great, but the emotional consequences aren’t.
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